Today John, Kristine and I went to the funeral for the
brother of one of John's college friends.
I went because he was on active duty in the U. S. Navy, so the Westboro
so-called Baptist Church
sent out their usual call for a demonstration at the funeral or burial. There was no chance that they would show up
themselves; the major news media doesn't cover rural Ohio. And there was almost no chance anyone else
would answer their call. Very few ever
do, and those few are also publicity maniacs.
Some people agree with their warped beliefs about God and homosexuality,
but the vast majority of these people have a great respect for the
military. If WBC is ever attacked, it is
more likely to come from their friends than their enemies.
Anyway, although I didn't think that a counter-demonstration
or protective "human wall" was necessary, I still went. Why?
Well, partly because I could. I'm
now 65, but I'm only semi-retired, so I do have extra time available for
things. Here was something good to do and
it fit into my work schedule; I could do this.
And it would be time to spend with my son and someone who was extremely
important to him. But mainly, I take my
Christianity seriously, and I'm deeply offended by people who make it a
laughingstock or worse. I want it to be
clear that this is not, most emphatically NOT, the Jesus in Whom I have put my
faith, trust and love.
So we went to the funeral together. As I'd expected, nothing evil happened. The human wall wasn't actually
necessary. Within the church building,
we had a normal Catholic funeral for a young adult who died too young. It wasn't easy; it reminded me too much of
the funeral of my cousin Tom Hopkins.
Especially when the priest remarked that 46 years ago, it had been Army
uniforms in the front, and his brother right there in the middle. Yeah, Father, been there. It sucked.
The cemetery was close by; everything went normally, and we headed back
for our normal work.
But I had seen something wonderful. When we came to the church from the funeral
home, a "human wall" was in place.
I couldn't see all the way around the church, but everywhere I could see
was defended. People had come together
to help and protect their friends and neighbors in a hard time. Some were local folks, and some were from
elsewhere like us, responding to Keith's (the brother) friends and
relations.
Sometimes, good comes out of evil. This looks like one of those times. I feel greatly blessed to have been
there.